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Questions about how best to approach saying "no", or declining requests. Please explain in your question why just saying "no" is not sufficient.

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How can I tactfully refuse to switch seats on flights?

Consider redirecting them. "I'm sorry you were not assigned the seat you needed. I cannot help you, but perhaps one of the attendants can. Shall I press the call button so they can help you?" Whil …
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How to avoid being seen as a cash cow by my family?

To avoid being seen as a cash cow, don't be one. They don't need to know your financial situation, nor your reasons for denying them further payouts. Simply stop saying "yes" and if they press you f …
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How to ask a vegan to stop telling me about veganism because I am not interested in it?

Given that they are consistent, then it's probably time for you to start being consistent. Whenever they say the first sentence about your food habits, interrupt them with one of the following: We' …
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