Skip to main content
Search type Search syntax
Tags [tag]
Exact "words here"
Author user:1234
user:me (yours)
Score score:3 (3+)
score:0 (none)
Answers answers:3 (3+)
answers:0 (none)
isaccepted:yes
hasaccepted:no
inquestion:1234
Views views:250
Code code:"if (foo != bar)"
Sections title:apples
body:"apples oranges"
URL url:"*.example.com"
Saves in:saves
Status closed:yes
duplicate:no
migrated:no
wiki:no
Types is:question
is:answer
Exclude -[tag]
-apples
For more details on advanced search visit our help page
Results tagged with
Search options not deleted user 17519

Questions that have a specific focus on people in the United States, or American culture.

1 vote

How to approach daycare provider about reduced days?

I understand in situations like this there can be emotions involved, but as a business man I can only give you advice from a pragmatic point of view because I have no kids. Lower your weapons, and …
J A's user avatar
  • 2,705
1 vote

Is it appropriate to tell someone of the opposite gender "your fly is down"?

My answer could be unpopular around here with people who have a disproportionate interest in being "nice" rather than having interpersonal skills (shown by the fact that most answers assume you alread …
J A's user avatar
  • 2,705
11 votes

How to enforce a "No Shoes" policy in my apartment?

I love your question! Well, I really like the no shoes policy. (I have to mop the floor continuously because I live in a dusty area though, but it is totally worth it) 1. Set the narrative: You are …
J A's user avatar
  • 2,705
7 votes

How to ask a parent to help with something they disagree with fundamentally?

Use the contrast principle of persuasion techniques. You'll need to create and resolve tension through contrast. You already provided useful tension narrative. It's fairly likely I'll pursue this …
J A's user avatar
  • 2,705
12 votes
Accepted

How to introduce metamours without causing awkwardness?

I'm polyamorous too and, well, this is sort of new for me too (at least in practice) but learning from others I found suitable ways to act. I've seen that most answers seem to be a little tone deaf on …
J A's user avatar
  • 2,705