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This tag should be used when boundaries (either yours or someone else's) play a major role in the situation at hand. This could involve questions about how to respect other people's boundaries, how to handle overstepping someone's boundaries, establishing your own boundaries, or handling someone who has overstepped your boundaries.

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How to ask someone to stop behaving in a certain way in public that makes me uncomfortable

Well, whether/what to do unfortunately strictly depends on the context: is there any (maybe unwritten) guideline of the place/club/premise/etc. about the general behaviour that must be followed? I'd …
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How to make someone respect your time when making plans without being rude?

Therefore, next time he suggests to do something, set boundaries straightforwardly and assert what you said above: Are you absolutely sure you're gonna be at [place] at [time]? …
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How can I go out to lunch with a friend's partner with him not feeling betrayed?

I'm well aware that in any healthy relationship there should be a great deal of openness, tolerance, and trust. With this one, you have already aswered yourself. To this, it must be clarified th …
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Answer to: "Why aren't you with your boyfriend right now?"

I'd hit the central point with a bold Because "love relationship" - where trust and respect are core values - does not mean "wearing a dog collar"; were's the bad in having some (and I'd like to s …
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How to effectively communicate to my mother that she sometimes suppresses me even if she doe...

They OF COURSE are WORTHWHILE people (they are your parents, they grew you up, they care for you, etc.) but that does NOT allow them to go beyond one's boundaries. …
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