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Questions about having conversations with other people, and how to achieve certain things when having them. This can be covering (or avoiding) certain topics, starting them, keeping them going or bringing them to a close.

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How can I bring good news to a partner who is professionally not as successful?

I had a somewhat similar situation. My partner was not angered / depressed from my successes, but still, things did not always go in the good direction. We were lucky that we had an open way to discus …
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How to designate, that I'd prefer having a conversation in english, when someone aproaches m...

Almost all my employment happened to be with big multinational corporations. I saw this problem many times, and occasionally I was the problem. Everything I say below applies in private life as well - …
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How to honestly answer questions from a girlfriend like "How did you find this place" withou...

I go through these situations occasionally. Even now, I have a friend (girl, simple friendship only), to whom I do not want to mention that something happened while I was with another girl. In these …
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Goal: make conversation enjoyable for another person which you barely know, but has made it ...

I sometimes have the problem that I cannot break the ice starting a conversation. However, if the other person helps, then I usually do not have problems to fit in. Here are some things that I did / …
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How to cope with my wife's unfinished plans?

Hmmm... You almost described my father. His typical answer to a problem used to be "I will make a project and ..." and that was the end of it. We learned, in our family to apply one of two ways: ju …
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How to politely tell my girlfriend to move out? (we hadn't actually agreed to live together)

With my first girlfriends, I tried to treat the resting / sleeping like in the movies: falling asleep hugged, waking up in a certain way etc. For me, it was terrorizing, because I could not have a pro …
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Confront mentor on unwarranted remark

I think that the two of you actually have a communication problem, no more. And it is a very particular kind of communication: giving and receiving feedback. I know from my own experience, and from m …
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How do I introduce my new name to my friends?

I encountered similar situation previously. People just tell their friends (and remind them occasionally, when needed, during accommodation period) about the name change like this: From now on, pl …
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How to reply to small talk/random facts in a non-offensive way?

I'm not sure if this problem is actually this simple Well, you described it in just a few words, therefore the problem is simple. However, the solution will require you to make some mental effort, a …
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