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Questions that have a specific focus on people in the United States, or American culture.
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How to handle someone who repeatedly returns to previously-discussed points in conversations?
I have some people like this in my personal life and I handle it by using the accoutrements of a business meeting. Chief among these is some sort of shared document. It might be a google doc you can b …
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What's the etiquette for addressing a friend's partner or family in a greeting card?
If you are sending the card to their home, inside mention everyone who lives in the home. That includes not only their partner but their children if you know of them. You don't have to write a persona …
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Meeting new people and telling them my field of work X and they say they could never underst...
I am an outlier in most "small talk" groups, even within my industry. I have a PhD in engineering, I've run a consulting company for decades that has supported multiple families, I fly the world to do …
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How to ask a C-level executive to fix their smoke detector?
I would email the person. Say that you've been hearing a beeping in some of your calls and not in others, and that you're nearly sure that this person is the common link. Apologize for being unable to …
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How to negotiate about drying clothes with someone from a culture who isn't used to it?
First, you need to think very carefully about the logic you intend to use. For example "I think it's dirty and unhygienic so I don't want it in my bedroom but you all should be fine with it being in t …
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How to avoid a lengthy conversation with someone from the neighborhood I don't share interes...
I was taught this as part of my training to be at a conference on behalf of the conference organizers. Talking to people is part of the job, and in fact standing at a booth for people to come and talk …
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Helping my mom accept that I can't be available as much as she wants
I am going to recommend you stop saying sorry. There are two reasons for this:
it is always followed by "but", which negates it. "Sorry, but that's how my life is right now" isn't really an apology …
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How to be Polite without giving wrong signals (because this happened before!)
First and foremost, an office is never a place for "unwanted attention" and if you receive some, it is a failure on the part of the provider of the attention, not you. You are not obliged to stop dres …
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How to effectively communicate technical data/instructions without writing "too long" emails?
A short email is harder to write than a long one. People are telling you to take the time and put in the effort to write a short one.
Let's say you're writing an email about how to boil an egg. In so …
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How can I talk to my brother about spanking his child?
Some facts:
you don't know how often or under what circumstances your brother spanks his child. You think it's important to tell him not to.
you don't have children or parenting experience
Your part …
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How to enforce a "No Shoes" policy in my apartment?
My dentist handles this by handing people slippers as they arrive on rainy days. I think you can adapt the technique quite well. Get a variety of soft loose slippers with nonslip soles somewhere inexp …
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How to tell someone to be quiet immediately while listening to an announcement?
In this context, I prefer
Hang on
Unlike shh, it clearly conveys a sense of temporariness. Not "don't talk" but "don't talk right now". It's also not something adults say to children (eg teacher …
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How would one explain to a friend that even if they're accepted to a University, it's probab...
First, I think you're dramatically overestimating the impact of the personal essay on the admission decision. You need marks, and in some cases you also need reference letters and the "right" extra cu …
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Responding to my mom's remarks about my love life when she refuses to accept/acknowledge it
If your mother is actually saying soulmate out loud with her mouth, and not man, how about taking her at face value? You can go several ways with it. You could argue that you don't need a partner to b …
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How to gracefully accept an implied/indirect compliment?
I have had great success with
I'll take that as a compliment
Followed by a grin that suggests perhaps I'm being a little cheeky in taking a compliment where it might not have been intended.
Pe …