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TheRealLester
  • Member for 6 years, 6 months
  • Last seen more than 4 years ago
  • Ontario, Canada
117 votes
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I'm in a committed relationship and I'm being hit on in the workplace - how do I stop it without bringing it to HR?

110 votes
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How to address a double standard where my religious colleagues consider it OK to discuss religion, but then ask me not to?

78 votes
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How to maintain healthy conversation with a partner long term

73 votes

How to stop classmate from bullying me

59 votes

How do you ask friends to visit a dispensary without looking like a junkie?

56 votes

Ask a girl whether she would like to come back to a hotel with me on a night out without being creepy

41 votes

How to tactfully communicate with ex-boyfriend about my personal choices?

39 votes

How can I tell someone that I am glad to be leaving them without sounding petty?

38 votes

Saying "No" to my brother's demand without causing an argument

35 votes
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My boyfriend has issues with his parents, how do I support him without ending up in his parents bad books?

33 votes
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How do I help someone that has really low self esteem and gets crippled by failure?

31 votes

Encouraging bystanders to step up

22 votes
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How to get across to flatmates the reason behind not wanting to live with them again?

22 votes

Attending the 9/11 Memorial next month - how to interact with families that lost loved ones?

22 votes

How to avoid explaining science to strangers

12 votes

How can I ask a new date to not smoke around me?

12 votes
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How to ask if I can use a rewards/points card at a paid lunch?

12 votes

How can I try to get my coworkers to stop their jokes on LGBTQ+ people

10 votes
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How to refuse an invitation without offending good friends?

7 votes

How can I get my mom to accept me being introverted?

6 votes

How do I avoid strange questions because of a flag?

5 votes

How can I convey to my technologically inept parents that my IT job is mentally draining

5 votes
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How to switch conversations in mother tongue/native language to English at office

5 votes

How to ask a friend to stop lying?

5 votes

How to handle situations which demands odd behavior

4 votes
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What skin tone emoji should I use in Slack reaction?

4 votes

Asking guys to quit shouting in a bar

3 votes

What's a good strategy to handle not wanting to talk much during a road trip?

2 votes

Boyfriend anger expression issues - "If I can't have it, you can't either"

2 votes

How to tell my boss about his lack of hygiene